We Are NOT All Inherently 'Potheads' - Why do we perpetuate the Stoner Women's stereotype?

We Are Not All Inherently 'Potheads' - Why Do We Perpetuate the Stoner Women's Stereotype? (Opinion)

August 14, 2017 3 Comments

By Maya Novikov.

Reading marijuana-devoted websites can be both educational and frustrating. The frustrating part begins when people who their whole purpose is to attract more visitors make up silly meaningless listicles, like this one from High Times magazine "17 Reasons Why You Should Date a Girl Who Smokes Weed." - Of course every stoner, a girl or a guy, will click on this. And some of them will also forward the link to their boyfriends or girlfriends, so it does the purpose. 


I need to say that I highly respect the High Times magazine. It is probably the most important media outlet for cannabis culture of the 20th century. They still do quality journalism, although they have some competition now. But can’t they do better than trying to imitate Buzzfeed

Check this GIF for instance; number 17 has a Chris Brown Smokes Up Rihanna GIF. And look what the caption reads: “The couple that smokes together, stays together.”

smoking weed

Really, this GIF idea doesn't even work for them. The troubled story of Rihanna and Brown’s relationship was covered by tabloids, so anyone who is interested is free to read up some TMZ archives. 

Besides that, Buzzfeed is not a model cannabis-covering media. They have been harshly criticized for promoting a lazy unfocused stoner stereotype. 

Why do we perpetuate the Stoner Women's Stereotype?

The answer is simply for the purpose of marketing, exposure and traffic, however the real problem is the messaging. We criticize mainstream media for cultivating the aforementioned pothead stereotype. We know that anyone can be a stoner, and we don't mind the term itself, but we do mind the negative irresponsible stereotype and the stigma behind it. There are so many women out there who smoke weed, and not all of them are relaxed chicks who are open to threesome experience (as number 11 implies; below).

"She likes to try new things. You know what we're talking about..."


Some of them are stay at home mothers who relax by getting high when the kids are asleep. Some of them are career women who use marijuana to deal with daily stress. Some are students who use daytime strains to feel energized at their part-time jobs. Some are creative professionals who have mastered the art of high brainstorming and stoned planning. Each of them is unique. 

- 7 Things Women Who Smoke Weed Don’t Want You To Say

Another issue is over-sexualizing marijuana smoking. There are whole websites dedicated to erotic photos of women who smoke weed. And this piece of infotainment also implies that sexy stoner chicks wear stockings (you can keep joints in them!), are good with their hands and tongue, and love to try new things. It is not a secret that in stoner humor women are often shown as sexually attractive ladies who like weed, but don’t know where to buy or how to smoke it. 

Stoner Chick

Via Pot Shot Comics

Meet my friend Helen. She’s a photographer and a digital media professional, she’s in her mid 20s, and she smokes weed several times a week. She is definitely a high-maintenance young woman; her jewelry is perfectly organized, her looks are very thought-through. She will not laugh at your jokes if they are not funny. Helen prefers smoking through a bowl. 


And this is my friend Maria. She is in her late 30s, but if I asked you to define her age basing on her looks, you would probably say 31-32. Maria knows how to roll a spliff and how to run a company. She is happily married and she has a teenage son. Before the recent recession in Russia, her career had been thriving; she’s now a freelance translator, and a successful one. 

Diana works as a waitress in a cafe that belongs to a famous designer. Sofia is a researcher at a biotech lab. Jessica is a radio host and TV producer. They are all normal women, not some mythical relaxed sexy chicks. The society would have done a very good job if it stopped treating women who smoke marijuana differently than other women. Cannabis consumption does not define us.


Editor's Note: This post was originally published in November 2016, around my dad's birthday, and has been revamped and updated as needed for accuracy and comprehensiveness.


3 Responses

Ayad Maher
Ayad Maher

September 05, 2017

Hello Daniel, up to my personal experience, weed helped me with my depression and anxiety. You can always consume marijuana using edibles (brownies or whatnot), capsules or oil. You can also cook yours. CBD is a great supplement especially if you don’t wanna get high.

There is lack of studies and researches, but as the marijuana industry is getting legal, we will see more scientific studies show clearly the health benefits

Daniel S Lennox
Daniel S Lennox

September 05, 2017

Hi All, I just want to ask if anyone ever tried using medical cannabis as an alternative meds? I have read many articles about medical marijuana and how it can help you in terms of chronic pain, bone injuries, eating disorder/anorexia, anxiety disorders and panic attacks, inflammation, even cancer and a lot more. Like this article about a marijuana strain called Frisian Duck from:http://www.ilovegrowingmarijuana.com/frisian-duck/ . Cbd and thc are also new to me and I don’t even smoke. If this is true I cant find any solid conclusive evidence that speaks to its efficacy. Any personal experience or testimonial would be highly appreciated. Thanks

Jennifer Ford
Jennifer Ford

August 16, 2017

Many successful and intelligent women prefer to use Cannabis as a form of stress management but choose not to publicy announce it for fear of incarcetation, ridicule and stereotypes. While I appreciate the the media attention now being given to the topic of Cannabis use I think it is important to include the many medicinal benefits this plant provides. Smoking weed doesn’t make you cool, being a nice person does!

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